Sabrina-Too Many Pet Peeves Too Count!

It was a group decision not to have a specific number of pet peeves to list, SO this will be fun! Ha ha! Since I have quiet a few pet peeves, I will stick to the more serious ones I have.

One of my all time pet peeves would have to be SMOKERS! And not just smokers, but rude, inconsiderate ones. The kind that try and smoke in MY car. The ones that can't go 30 mins without lighting up. It's very irritating trying to hang out with a smoker that has to have a cig all the time. They stink up my car and they reek. It's gross how the smoke sticks to everything! My car will smell days later after a smoker has been in it, my clothes drag it into my house too! Have some common courtesy to smoke away from people, FAR away from people. Also, please don't smoke a cig right before hoping into my car, that's just as bad to me as smoking in my car. I dislike how a smoker having a conversation with someone seems to be a perfect time for them to go have a smoke, and they want me to come outside and conversate while they smoke. I understand that it may be a perfect opportunity for you to light up since we aren't doing anything at the moment but talking, but do you really think I want to sit outside in the freezing weather while you blow smoke in my face?

BAD DRIVERS are another major pet peeve for me! For goodness sakes get off your cell and drive! Don't tailgate me, for I will go slower or slam on the brakes just to laugh about how angry you get. I don't drive slow and therefore you have no reason to be on my ass. Put on your damn blinkers! That's what they are on your car for!

The other day I was cleaning out my car to find that there was a bunch of trash in it that I was unaware of and wasn't even mine! Don't be a SLOB! PICK UP AFTER YOURSELF! I dislike with a passion when people come to my house or go in my car and leave their trash in it. It's annoying and completely rude. I understand that if I had a party at my house that there would be some trash around, but even then I never go to some one's house and leave my shit around. I will ask where to toss it or cart it around if I have too until I find a dumpster. Sometimes people forget, I can understand that, but when it's a constant thing it starts getting very annoying. I know people that are just complete slobs, but keep your sloppiness in YOUR car/house, don't bring it to mine. Even when it is in their house, how do they not get embarrassed about it? Gross.

Wow, writing these pet peeves is really starting to get me worked up! ha ha!

When I go into some one's bathroom or even my own and find HAIR ON THE SHOWER WALLS OR THE SINK! EWW! So nasty! Does someone intentionally just put their hair all over the shower walls? I don't understand how that happens. I really don't understand why someone wouldn't clean that up either. It's nasty going to brush my teeth and seeing multiple long ass hairs in someone's or my sink. I don't really know why it bugs me so, but it does.

The last movie I saw was a few days ago. Always on weekdays (and occasionally weekends), there tends to be a few people that won't SHUT UP! I don't care if you think the actor is flipping gorgeous and I certainly don't think the actress is going to take your screaming advice to her. Shut your mouth. No one came to the movie to listen to you blab! I sure in the hell didn't pay ten bucks to hear your annoying voice. Also, don't constantly push on the back of my seat. It gets very annoying having you put your feet up or constantly keep bumping my seat. So stop. I can easily not do it to the people in front of me, so I expect the same courtesy I give to others.

An old friend of mine was trying to give herself the nickname LaBooty. I don't know if you remember or even read it, but my nickname is SaBooty [Sabrina+my giant bubble butt]. So first off it was very irritating having her try and take my nickname. By the way her name is Laura. So that's where the "La" came into play. To make matters worse she tried to hide the nickname from me. So after she had been trying to call herself this for some months I saw it online and laughed. It's hilarious to me when people give themselves a nickname, and when they give themselves a nickname that doesn't even fit. A nickname is often given to you from someone special, a family member, a close friend, etc; not from yourself. It's SO silly to call yourself "bootylicious" [just an example] when you don't have any booty! Ha ha! It doesn't have to be a body part either, although those are the most common ones that I find hilarious and mostly untrue.

A lot of girls (and guys) are so STUPID AND OBLIVIOUS TO RELATIONSHIPS! I hate it when it is obviously not going to work out, and everyone sees it but you. Your friends are even telling you what they see and still you want to think it's the greatest thing ever, or you have an excuse to why he said or did something he did that was totally wrong. Don't let a girl/guy treat you like shit. He mentally/physically abuses you, then the relationship is over. People take getting treated like dirt when they are SO much better then that! I hate it when a friend asks my advice and I give it to them only to have them do the complete opposite. Don't ask for my advice if you don't ever take it or want to hear it. Sometimes you need to not wait it out and end it before it truly hurts you. I wish they could truly step out of their brain for a minute and soak up all the signs and advice people are telling them. It makes it worse to know that if I came to them with the same problems they would say leave the person. Too frustrating for words on this subject. And SO many people seem to have this problem that it bugs the crap out of me.

I think this is a topper for a lot of people, FLAKES! I don't want to invite people that flake all the time to places with me. Then the few times I see them or bump into them they tell me 'we need to kick it' or ' we need to hang out more'. I've been trying to hang out with you! You like to cancel on me the day before, or the worst, 5 mins before. Be straight up with me about it. If you don't want to hang out, then tell me. My feelings won't get hurt. I'd much rather someone tell me that they don't want to hang out because they are tired or don't want to or whatever, then someone make up a lame excuse at the last minute.

I think everyone should know that meat and other foods become bad and gather tons of bacteria on them after they sit out on the counter for hours. So don't make a meal, have it sit on the counter for 5 hours and then put it back in the fridge. If I see or know that you do that I will not be eating at your house. It's funny to me when people wonder why I won't eat at their house and they do stuff like that. Or I won't eat there because they are complete slobs and their kitchen disgusts me. Having a dirty house is one thing, but having a dirty bathroom and kitchen is too much for me to handle. I won't eat at your house, use your dishes, or do my best never to have to use your bathroom if it is that gross. I'm not a complete clean freak or germ-a-fobe, but I do have my limits on things like that. Food is very serious to me. Would you eat at a restaurant that you find out had a shit ton of cockroaches? That's the same feeling I get with this other stuff. Disgusting!

My final three pet peeves are Lazy people, One uppers, and People that think their life is so horrible or are always depressed. It's one thing to have lazy days, but constantly being lazy erks me. I guess complete homebodies bug me. You need to get out and do something, even if its once a month! If you can't get out because your just that busy, its one thing though. I like to get out and have some fun, and I also like my 'ME' time or a lazy day. Don't tell everyone about your goals to do something and then never do them. It gets annoying hearing about how your going to do something and you speak with so much passion about it but you never make a move toward any of it. A 'one upper' is a person who is always trying to be above you in everything you say or do. They act like they are the best in EVERYTHING! New flash, YOUR NOT! Not everyone can play soccer, softball, bench 200+ lbs, run a mile in 5 mins, etc. I will have a conversation with them or someone else and they have to chime in right in the middle of it just to say they did whatever better. I don't care if you went to Hawaii and I've only been to the snow. I don't need you to tell me how much you think your trip was better then mine, when I was just talking about how when I went to the snow I saw a dog. See where people that are one uppers may get a little annoying? And last but definitely not least, I dislike people that are depressed 24/7. The ones that act like their life is SO miserable. They come hang out and just bring the mood down.  Or they won't even hang out ever because they are always so down. Cheer the fuck up! You control your emotions. If you want to believe your life is shit, then that's what it is. If you believe your the happiest person in the freaking world then you will be damn well close to just that. Be happy. Life really isn't that shitty. We all have our ups and downs. People get down in the dumps, but it isn't an everyday thing. We go through shitty times and that's understandable. But eventually things get better. Believe it or not, things do indeed get better. If they don't, it's because you don't want them too.

Well those are the main pet peeves I have. I know I have a few more, but can't think of them at the moment, so they must not be all that big of a pet peeve then.